I was always pressured on having to be who everyone else tells me to be, even by my own family. My mother is a great person, but when it comes to my personality, she is always on my back about it. I'm always humorous and I like to be funny, but she takes it as not being "lady-like". She'll always tell me to stop fooling around and that I'm not acting like a young, sophisticated lady when I try to brighten the mood. But that's just me; I like to be funny. The bad part is that this is the reason I am silent most of the time and don't talk much, because I feel like a dissappointment when I am myself.
another thing I'm pressured on is my future career and what I want to be when I'm older. I want to be an artist/illustrator, but my grandmother always wanted me to be a doctor. I told her about what I really wanted to be, but she doesn't think that is a good career for me and that it should only be a hobby at the most. She wants me to make a lot of money, but I don't want to be rich, just happy with doing at what I want to do, regardless of what I get payed.